FREE TO BE ME
- Published on Thursday, 08 November 2012 09:43
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It is not your role to make others happy; it is your role to keep yourself in balance. When you pay attention to how you feel and practice self-empowering thoughts that align with who-you-really-are, you will offer an example of thriving that will be of tremendous value to those who have the benefit of observing you.
You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive or sick enough to help sick people get well. You only ever uplift from your position of strength and clarity and alignment.
THIS QUOTE IS VERY PERSONALLY EMPOWERING..IT IS SO TRUE!!!
If you are a habitual people pleaser, like I have been, it is probably hard to feel personally empowered, free to be yourself, happy, joyful, peaceful and loving. It has made me feel unempowered, imprisoned, stressed, anxious, codependent and victimized. This habit can, over time, become your identity and you loose site of yourself, who you really are. You may not even realize that you are being a people pleaser because it is the only way you know how to be. Others pick up on this easily and you allow them to use you, becoming a victim of their desires. As you choose to put your wants and needs second, you can begin to resent that you are always making everyone else happy by sacrificing your own happiness. It can make you very good at making peace, but maybe not feeling peaceful. You deny yourself having good feelings so that others can have them. It seems that you are acting like a martyr and suffering in silence, trying to borrow some of the good feelings you are so freely giving away to others as you deny yourself. Why? Don’t you matter as much as they do? Where did this come from?
If you want to figure this out and make the changes you desire, past regression work can help you find answers, forgive and reprogram yourself to be personally empowered, free, happy, joyful, peaceful, loving, balanced, strong, clear and in alignment. It has helped me heal, grow and change back into my true self. It made it clear where it all began and how it was repeated throughout my whole life over and over again. As early as in my mother’s womb, I began to learn how to always please others by giving and helping them at the cost of well being and personal truth. Then as I grew up, this was reinforced by my mother’s model of perfectionism in being able to make others happy. I also became this in time. But just as I chose to be and experience this, I also chose to change it. The choice I made is to be a model of thriving while being personally empowered and to uplift others from my position of strength, clarity and alignment. It is a rich blessing and an amazing journey.
If you are interested in finding out how to make the changes you desire in your life, please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org and I promise you, we will have fun as you rediscover your True Self!