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How to Find The Joy In Being A Caregiver

Does caring for others bring you Joy?  Would you like to have more Fun as you Focus on taking Care of someone else?

How do you think doing this would make you feel?  Close your eyes, take a deep breath in and let it out.  Imagine that as you are caring for someone you are allowing yourself to experience more joy.  Does this also make you feel more energized? Would you like to create this feeling more often, especially as you continue caring for others?

“Joy is the holy fire that keeps our purpose warm and our intelligence aglow.” 

~Helen Keller

The most important step you need to take is to value yourself enough to take the time to make finding joy an essential part of your day as you care for others.  It takes a conscious decision and a willingness to practice finding joy in the middle of all the routine tasks that come with your role as a caregiver. The more you do, you will be able to clearly know and have the energy for the tasks that need your immediate attention.

“The path of joy involves valuing yourself 

and monitoring where you put your time.”

~Sanaya Roman

By allowing yourself to experience more joy, no matter what you are doing or who you are with, you will be able to uplift those you are caring for as well.  As the Law of Attraction states, “like attracts like” and “what you focus on expands.” Therefore, your joyful energy and a good sense of humor will pleasantly affect everyone in your world including those you are caring for.

“Joy is increased by spreading it to others.” 

~Robert Murray McCheyne

To help you become successful at applying the Law of Attraction to have more fun and experience more joy, especially as a caregiver, you can use this simple process. 

  • Create a list of at least 3 things that you love to do that make you feel more joyful as a caregiver.  Leave space in between to write more about each item.

  • Below each of these things you listed above, write down why you enjoy doing each one.

  • Then put down how doing each one makes you feel.  Be specific.

  • Now ask yourself what stops you from doing the things you enjoy more often as you care for others.

  • Find a way to easily incorporate doing each one of them in your daily routine. Be creative.

  • Promise yourself to have fun doing them on a regular basis. 

  • Leave time to follow spontaneous inspired action that adapts the way you continue to incorporate doing each one

  • Start a Success Journal and keep track of the results you experience from doing this process.

  • Be open to new ideas and ways to find the joy in being a caregiver.

As you regularly practice doing this process, you will have more fun and find more joy as you continue to care for others.  

“There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.” 

~Khalil Gibran

Loving Light and Smiles,

Nada 🙂

 

 

How to Empower Your Life by Reinventing the White Horse Syndrome!

 

Do you allow yourself to be continuously hurt by others you have somehow idolized?  Have you put them on a pedestal, made into a knight in shining armor or a perfect princess?  Then when they show their unique human side, you become devastated thinking that they aren’t who you thought they were.  You are not alone. It is often referred to as the White Horse Syndrome.  The Urban Dictionary describes this as, “A condition in which a person’s frame of thought in all things romantic is completely dream oriented and not grounded in reality.”

As children growing up, we learned to do this from fairytales and the example of adults in our lives. However, these experiences were there to teach us how to use our imagination and empower us to become the unlimited, deliberate creators we came here to be.  It was never intended for us to give our power away to another human being that we had imagined to be everything we could never become like. By desperately trying to become like them or somehow fit into their life, we end up losing ourselves in the process. The real pain is that we desert our true selves and get lost in a romantic dream that isn’t grounded in reality.

The truth is, No one is here to rescue you from reality or save you from anything, including yourself.  There isn’t anything you need to be rescued from. As you stay grounded and present in each moment, connected to your own Divine Guidance, you are perfectly safe.  You will know everything you need to know to create your Heart’s Desires.

How do you reinvent the White Horse Syndrome?  These six steps will help you to empower your life by staying grounded and connected to your own Dreams.  You will then be able to get back on your own White Horse and tap into the unlimited possibilities you can become and create.

  1. Embrace yourself as Divinely Perfect just as you are.  There is nothing to change or improve.  You are more than enough. Love all parts of yourself for who you are as a human being.  The perceived good and bad are both parts of your path to wholeness. 

  2. Honor your feelings, and allow yourself to feel them.  Denying your feelings will only take you further away from who you truly are.  This can cause you to believe that you aren’t good enough, that there is something wrong with you, or that others have what you are missing.

  3. Embrace others as being Divinely Perfect just as they are.  Allow them to be human beings doing the best they can under their present circumstances, just like you are.  This doesn’t mean you have to like or even approve of every part of their personality, or actions. Just know that who they truly are goes far deeper than they will ever show most people.

  4. See others you admire as Mirrors reflecting all that you already are or have the capacity to become.  You are not them, but you couldn’t see something you like or love about them if you didn’t already possess that same quality or have the capacity to become more like it.  Use that reflection to encourage you to be your own unique version of what you see and appreciate in others. 

  5. Forgive and Let Go of anything anyone does that doesn’t turn out to be the way you thought it should be.  Accept that none of us have the whole picture. Hold onto the vision that somehow everything happens for the highest good of all. 

  6. Put everyone back up on their own white horse, including yourself.  See them as perfect, being Divinely guided to follow their own path and live their true purpose.  We are all doing our best and deserve each other’s compassion, including our own.

When we follow these steps, we are choosing to see the Highest truth for all. We are doing our best to keep riding that White Horse of our own dreams every day. 

 

Loving Light and Smiles,

Nada 🙂

 

How to use the Law of Attraction to Continue to Create the Spirit of Christmas Throughout the New Year!

 

Did you think Christmas was over?  Just when you were feeling So Good…!

The feelings Christmas creates never have to end!  They can be the beginning of a wonderful opportunity to continue to share our JOY, LOVE, and PEACE with others and ourselves throughout the New Year.  

During the Christmas season we are often filled with the Spirit of Giving, Receiving, Peace, Love, and Joy. By using the Law of Attraction we can carry that spirit forward into the New Year. 

These six simple processes and techniques can help you Enjoy using the Law of Attraction to continue to create more of that Spirit of Christmas throughout the New Year:

  • Start and end each day with Gratitude.  Create a Gratitude Journal by using a special notebook or paper that feels meaningful to you.  Write down at least 5 things you are grateful for right after you wake up in the morning and right before you go to bed at night.

  • Take at least 5 to 10 minutes to Meditate twice a day.  Every morning after you wake up and every night before you go to bed, take time to meditate by breathing and reconnecting with the Truth of Who You Are as an unlimited spiritual being and powerful creator.

  • Use the Power of your Intention to Pre Pave Your Day for Success.  See it filled with more Peace, Love, Joy, and Abundance every step of the way.  Write down exactly what you want to happen and how you want to feel as you are creating your to-do list at night or before you start your day.

  • Practice Pivoting Your Thoughts to ones that Feel Better.  Develop your ability to be more aware of what you are thinking each moment.  Then find better feeling thoughts to replace the ones that aren’t supporting how you want to feel and what you want to create in your life.

  • Let Go of what you can’t take care of or change and Focus on the Divine Perfection in Everything.  Your perspective and focus are where you begin to create what happens next.  Choose where you want to hold your attention and what you want to believe about Your Future.  As you change your perspective, what you experience and the way you feel about it will also improve.

  • Sincerely ASK for what you Want,  BELIEVE with all of your Heart, and Open up to  RECEIVE with Total Gratitude.  Check out my previous article, Three Simple Things You Need To Do To Get What You Want for Christmas and Throughout the New Year” to help you continue to more easily attract the Desires of your Heart.

Applying any one or all of these Law of Attraction processes and techniques will help you continue to create more JOY, LOVE, PEACE and that Spirit of Christmas throughout the New Year.  I encourage you to follow your own inner guidance and do whatever feels best to you.

As my editor and good friend, Tara Soliz says, “Don’t pack up your joy and put it away with your Christmas decorations”.  

 

 

Loving light and Smiles,

Nada 🙂

 

 

How to Receive Your Personalized Guided Meditation from Nada!

 

Have you ever wanted to receive a unique meditation journey that is designed and downloaded specifically for you and your individual issue?  A magical transmission of healing energy that will help you move past your blocks without the cost of a full-on coaching session?

Nada will meditate and focus on you and your intention as she connects with the essence of your energy, your inner guides and teachers.  Then she will record an Amazing and Inspired Journey that will help you work with your Higher Self to help you shift your energy around the subject and move forward to continue to create the desires of your heart.

If you have never felt her energy and/or heard her voice, Click Here for a sample of one of Nada’s guided meditations.

CLICK THIS LINK to find out how to Receive Your Personalized Guided Meditation from Nada

 

Loving Light and Smiles,

Nada 🙂

 

 

 

 

How to Use the Law of Attraction to Create Successful Sleep!

 

Do you struggle to get the sleep you need?  Or sometimes, do you overindulge in too much sleep?  In this fast-paced world, it is challenging to find a healthy balance.   Have you ever gone to bed only to toss and turn all night as your mind plays old reruns or new worries? When this happens, your mind can get stuck in perpetual overload with more information to store, process and remember as you try to relax and go to sleep.  Have you ever been so caught up in what you are doing that you forget to go to bed until you are so tired that you fall asleep before you get there? Unsuccessful sleep is way too familiar to most of us. It affects our health, well being, relationships, family, careers and every other part of our lives.

So what is successful sleep?

 Successful sleep is when you go to bed comfortably tired, fall asleep effortlessly and easily, waking up feeling refreshed and renewed. 

How can you return to successful sleep?

 It is easier than you think!  The Law of Attraction can help you create whatever you focus on. First of all, you must be crystal clear about what you want.  When you think about having unsuccessful sleep, guess what, that is what you get more of. But if you keep returning your thoughts and especially your feelings to how wonderful you feel when you do get the perfect amount of rest, by the Law of Attraction, it has to happen!  It’s a Universal Law, just like gravity.  

Because we are so conditioned to the thoughts and feelings that are dominant in the world we live in, you may have believed that there is some complex methodology to have a more successful sleep.  With practice, focus and a strong commitment you will succeed at changing that conditioning. Before you know it, you will be experiencing successful sleep on a regular basis!

Here are a few tools you can use to help you:

1.   Accept where you are at right now and allow the changes to occur naturally, with a perfect love for yourself each step of the way.

2.  Script out how you know you will feel when you get the perfect amount of rest as if it has already happened.  Read this daily and add to it as needed. If you are comfortable, read it out loud to yourself for more powerful results.

3.  Throughout the day, think the thought “Wouldn’t I Be Nice If… ” and add good feeling thoughts about how wonderful it will be when you are getting more successful sleep and what you will be able to accomplish.   When you continue this for at least 68 seconds, you allow your mind to really grasp it and allow the changes to begin. Speaking it out loud with passion and excitement will also add more power to the process.

4.   Intend to get to bed at the perfect time for you.  Leave all your worries and concerns in the bathroom as you prepare for bed and promise them that you will tend to them tomorrow.  Write them down if that helps you let go of them for the night. Turn them over to your Divine Self, God, your Source, the Universe to take care of tomorrow.  Do whatever works for you and feels good and natural.

5.   Go to sleep with a heart full of gratitude for all your blessings and especially for effortless, easy and successful sleep.

If using any of these tools feels uncomfortable, think the thought “I am in the process of…”, and add how you are working on creating more successful sleep, thinking about how you know you are going to feel.  Feel the truth of your words in your heart.

As with any improvement you are trying to make in your life, be gentle with yourself when you lose your focus and fall back into old patterns.  Lovingly accept this when it happens and gratefully return to your preferred thoughts and feelings about successful sleep!

Good luck with this!!!  Know that you are not alone and it will be worth all your effort!!! 

 

Loving Light and Smiles,

Nada 🙂